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Parents must think about the current psychological state of their children. If through your clever debugging, a few of your child's motivation is mobilized, your child's learning will certainly go up a little.
3.4 Attention is the child's attitude towards learning
A child who is not good at learning, who is not interested in learning, is often inattentive in class, inattentive when reviewing homework, and inattentive when doing homework. Natural learning performance is not good, not good is more not interested, more not confident, the results are even worse. The result is even more inattentive.
Therefore, the significance of attention is: first, related to the other four positives; second, so that intelligence is in a good state of play; third, but also a good state of development and development of intelligence.
Have you ever paid attention to what state your child's attention is in right now? How many parents can answer this question? Do you know if he is paying attention in class? You only pay attention to his scores, why don't you find out if your child is paying attention?
It's not just a matter of asking a question, it's a matter of the child's active, trusting description that you can feel. He will tell you what classes I don't pay attention to and what classes I do pay attention to and love to listen to. When he trusts the parents a lot, he can tell these things in a mutual communication.
Do you ever care about your child's attention span? If not, then who are you to ask your child to learn well?
Can you do a good job when you yourself are inattentive?
You're a driver, and you're not paying attention, you're going to have a traffic accident in the first place. You're a clerk, you're a turner, you're not focused, you tend to get scrap. You do not pay attention, you may lose things when you go out to do things. You are not focused, operating the computer may mess up the program.
You do housework, inattentive, frying pan will catch fire, cooking will paste pot, washing machine forget to turn off, gas pipe forget to turn off, water faucet forget to turn off.
Mistakes are frequent.
So, how is the child's attention span? Can they focus themselves highly enough when studying? I hope parents will observe it.
Good concentration is a psychologically positive sign of learning; poor concentration is a psychologically negative sign.
3.5 The protective and supportive functions of perseverance
So, how is the child's perseverance in learning?
What is the child's will quality when encountering difficulties, when encountering difficult problems, when encountering setbacks?
What state is the child's will quality in? Not only secondary and elementary school students need to be observed, but also preschool children, including infants and toddlers.
Perseverance is the long-term persistence in the pursuit of upward goals, the protection of the state of intelligence, and the maintenance of attention for a long time; thus also forming the support of self-confidence and interest.
3.6 The five positives need to be cultivated from an early age
The five positives need to be cultivated from an early age.
If your child is very young, one or two years old, does he have the motivation to learn now? Does he have an interest in learning? Does he have self-confidence? Do you believe that you are smart and capable? Does he have the kind of attention span, especially when sitting and reading a book, or when drawing a picture? Do you have the perseverance? Do you have the perseverance to draw badly, to write wrongly, and to start over without getting frustrated?
Five types of motivation are the most important assets in a child's life
Five types of motivation will stay with your child for a long time. These are the positives that can be developed from the time your child is one or two, two or three years old. These are the most important assets in your child's life.
So, do parents know about these five states of positivity in their children?
Physicist Ding Zhaozhong once said, "Growing up, my parents left me alone and let me develop freely. As a result, he became a great scientist. Why do parents who do not care about their children turn out to be so good?
My parents didn't care about my study since the first grade, I managed my own study since elementary school, but why did I study well afterwards? They gave me three things: motivation, interest in learning, and confidence as a boy.
That's all that supported me throughout my life, overcoming all kinds of difficulties and learning all kinds of knowledge well.
So, when some parents desperately tutor their children to study and rush them to study, but their children's learning is still not the most ideal, we have to ask, where is the misconception?
The most important wisdom for parents is to cultivate five kinds of motivation in their children
The cultivation of the five positive qualities is the most important work of parents and the most important wisdom of parents.
Without being able to recognize this, and find a sense of it, and find a way to do it, you lose the most important foundation for being a qualified parent.
How is it possible for a parent to ask a child to learn well without paying attention to nurturing, protecting, and developing any little motivation in the child's learning?
Therefore, nurturing these five motivations should become the most important parental work and the most important parental wisdom.
The main tasks of early education
During infancy and early childhood, all education should primarily accomplish this task.
If you can accomplish this task and accomplish it well, your child can go to the first grade and then bring up a little bit, and then you can leave it later. If you can cultivate these five positive qualities in your child before school age, you won't have to do any major worrying for the rest of your life.
The experiences of various successful lives around the world testify to this truth. If you don't pay attention to nurturing these five positives in your child, the main job of preschool is not done.
The child has no upward motivation, no interest in learning, no self-confidence yet, no belief in himself, poor concentration and no quality of will, he will certainly encounter more difficulties later in life, and herein lies the task of early education.
Escorting the child's motivation
If your child is now in school, the main task for parents is still to nurture the continued development of these five positive qualities as he continues to grow, and to continue to escort your child's positive qualities.
If you did not do this well in your child's early years, or in elementary or middle school, the main task is now here to make up for it.