Correcting bad habits-woodmam

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The water in the tank has been made straight hot. It said mildly.

  "Friend, you think I'm making a fool of you and intend to embarrass you? Hey, then you are wrong. After you are quenched, you will become tougher and tougher. You know, I am the famous spring water specially carried by the master from the famous mountain far away, ah, is specially for you to contribute!"

  "In that case, you are doing it for my good?" Riken asked suspiciously as he left the water.

  "Of course," replied the precious spring, "we are destined to serve you, and I am happy to do so: to meet your fiery character with my cold nature, in order to endow you with a few coldnesses. This effort of mine will benefit you in the future in the battle of killing."

  Thus, a cold flash, the world's most famous sword was born.

  3. Self-assessment

  Would you like to water the flowers in your house every day? Promise not to forget a day.

  Do you dawdle in doing things?

  Do you often spend a lot of time on meaningless things? For example, playing video games.

  Are you tenacious enough when it comes to difficulties?

  Do you feel like you do things with a clear understanding of why you're doing them and know how to do them to be more efficient?

  Do you like to insist on finding out the answers to the questions you encounter by yourself?

  If there is something, everyone thinks there is no point, but you are convinced that it is useful to do, you will persist?

  Chapter 2 Correcting bad habits

  A. Do not do things according to the rules

  1. The definition and connotation of not doing things according to the rules

  Do not do things according to the rules of the habit, is to do things without rules to follow, completely disregard the objective needs and realistic requirements, only by their own imagination, how to do what they want to do. The rules may not be complicated, but the majority of people who have achieved something, do things according to the rules, especially those most simple rules.

  The dangers of not doing things according to the rules are often not easily perceived, and only when problems occur do they realize their seriousness, but often too late.

  According to statistics from various traffic and police departments around the world, the number of traffic deaths worldwide in 2003 was 500,000. The number of traffic deaths in China was 100?40,000, followed by India, the United States and Russia at 80?60,000, 40,000 and 20?60,000, respectively. At present, the number of road traffic accident deaths in China ranks seventh in the total number of deaths in the country after cerebrovascular, respiratory, malignant tumor, heart disease, injury and poisoning, and digestive system diseases, while the number of road traffic accident deaths in the world ranks tenth in the total number of deaths.

  Why do traffic accidents cause so many deaths and the grief of so many families? It is inseparable from people's disobedience of traffic rules. People often say, "If you don't follow the traffic rules, you don't necessarily have a traffic accident, but if you have a traffic accident, someone must not follow the traffic rules." To the general public, traffic rules are not complicated, but how many people do not violate traffic rules at all?

  Playing by the rules is the basic guideline for human beings to learn to live together. If everyone only acts in their own interest and does not follow the public rules. The world will never be a peaceful place if everyone does not consider the wishes of others. For children, it is a paradigm of socialization to get into the habit of knowing the rules before doing something and to consciously follow them.

  Here is a story.

  A famous entrepreneur from the mainland went to Hong Kong for business. He lived a short distance from the parking lot through an "S" shaped lawn. One day, as he was late leaving the house, he took a straight line from the grass to the car over the railings. A young Hong Kong police officer found, immediately came over, very politely to him to tear a penalty of $ 280 Hong Kong dollars ticket. He had to "admit his mistake, make amends, explain" to the police and promised "not to do it again. After that, he collected the ticket and drove away. Who knows, but a week later received a court summons. He had already put the matter to the back of his mind and thought the problem had been solved at that time, he felt baffled. When he asked his lawyer, he found out that "according to Hong Kong law, if you don't pay the fine at the designated place in one week. The court summons you; if you ignore it again, you will be arrested." Hearing this, he asked his lawyer to help him "unblock" the situation. But the lawyer told him, "I'm not going to do anything about it. The best thing you can do is to admit your mistake and be punished." He had no choice, the day of the trial with a smile and honestly admit their mistakes. Unexpectedly, he looked at the ticket but doubled it and felt puzzled. The judge explained: "The violation of the law, you admit it, but see the judge on the smile. This in itself is contempt of court, so the penalty is increased." After hearing this, he was speechless and shaken.

  Perhaps some people will think it is trivial incredible. But Hong Kong, from the police, lawyers to judges, we are loyal to their duties, the chain of serious law enforcement, everyone to take practical action to maintain the dignity of laws and regulations. In contrast, the mainland is inferior. As for the "punishment smile", it is a big contrast with the mainland. In a sense, it is this seemingly "ruthless" approach, to maintain and always maintain the "majesty" and "rigidity" of laws and regulations, rather than varying from person to person with "Flexible".

  Although sometimes it may seem inflexible to do things according to the rules, it can help our smart brains not to lose things because they are too tired.

  2. Cultivate the goal

  To correct the habit of not doing things according to the rules, we must form an awareness of the rules, learn to act within the rules, rather than everywhere beyond the rules, to be "special people".

  Fairness is an important rule of doing things. Some people in society often seek some improper special interests through power, money, relationships, etc.. This practice is a serious violation of the rules of fairness. For young students, it is even more important not to try to break the rules of fairness, otherwise it will be extremely detrimental to their growth:.

  There is a middle school student who is not the best in her class, but her grades are not bad, just a little petulant. Her mother is a cadre in the Education Bureau and often asks the school teacher to take care of her child. The teacher saw the "above" issued, which dare not comply? So, from elementary school to secondary school, this girl has been eating "partial rice". She was the best student in the school, even if she had to vote for it. The teacher will also try to get her a target; school activities, but also her, to participate in the essay contest, there were several students in the class essay level are higher than her, but the teacher still chose her; to the TV station as a small guest, obviously knowledge competition, she is not interested in, but the teacher still persuaded her to go, saying that this can exercise the ability ... ... ...As a result, due to the extra care she received, the girl never had much prestige in the class, and her classmates isolated her because of this, making her feel painful inside. In addition, living in an environment where she was always taken care of, she gradually developed a character that could not withstand setbacks and shed tears at the slightest criticism.

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